Is your marriage coasting? It’s not unhealthy, and no ache factors come to thoughts, but in addition no actual funding is being made. Or perhaps solely the investments that you simply’ve grown accustomed and comfy with making?
You’re not hurting, however you’re not having enjoyable such as you used to. Perhaps your relationship feels a bit lifeless or stale. If that’s you, we can assist!
The Marriage Refresher Problem is designed particularly for you. Dr. Kim’s huge expertise as a Christian Marriage Counselor signifies that investing deliberately in 5 key areas may have a huge effect in your marriage. What in case you took 5 weeks and did 5 issues every week to refresh your marriage?
Right here’s what you’ll do with this problem.
Let’s take a look at communication. Generally our conversations grow to be extra of a guidelines than an invite to know each other extra deeply. When was the final time your partner heard from you? Not your each day guidelines. Not a honey-do checklist, however heard out of your coronary heart? Heard about your targets, a wrestle you’re dealing with, or an space of life you’re feeling derailed in.
How are your funds? Are you on observe with spending? Has one partner taken the reins on this, leaving the opposite particular person seemingly out of the loop? Do you each have equal say in the place your cash goes? Do you present you worth your marriage in the best way you spend your cash?
Are the 2 of you feeling disconnected? Is there an unstated divide in your house? Have you ever discovered your self seeking to different individuals or locations to fulfill the necessity of connection?
What’s your prayer life like? Is your prayer time collectively a precedence? Is it nonexistent? Praying collectively could be intimidating. We get it! Nevertheless, it’s the only smartest thing you are able to do on your marriage. It builds intimacy, encourages vulnerability, and permits for transparency in your marriage, all whereas deepening your relationship and protecting Christ on the middle.
What about intimacy? We hear from {couples} usually that the intimacy of their marriage has gone stale. Whereas we all know bodily intimacy isn’t the one sort of intimacy a pair ought to share, we additionally know that bodily intimacy is an efficient indicator of the standard of the connection a pair shares! When’s the final time the 2 of you embraced each other? Sacrificed time in your system for head to head time along with your partner? Has bodily contact taken the place of bodily intimacy?
To refresh your marriage, do 1 factor for every of those 5 essential areas over the following 5 weeks:
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Communication
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Intimacy
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Connection
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Prayer
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Funds
Are you able to rejuvenate your marriage? With the intention to take the problem merely join right here. You’ll get a weekly electronic mail for five weeks along with your Weekly Marriage Refresher duties.
